Some of the times, we are tempted to see women from the glossy and scintillating colour of sexual intercourse. It is usually an overpowering but negative feeling that takes over the mind and brain. It is clear to me that this thought pattern is bad for the necessary relationship we have and ought to have with the opposite sex.

Our relationship with the opposite sex is designed to produce the sweetest and most rewarding experiences of our earth life. This relationship between men and women is the foundation for and the pathway to the creation of the family which is the basic foundation of a stable society.

Because the establishment of a family work best when it is done by two people of the opposite sex who are in love and genuinely so. Because love is much more than a feeling. Because the best description of love is sacrifice. Because the best act of love is service. Because the really right spelling love is TIME. Because best attitude towards love is appreciation. Because the right way to show love is giving. Because the right way to teach love is kindly. Because the right way to handle love is tenderly. Because the best thing to do for love is praise. And because of all these reasons, seeing a woman from the freckled coloured glass of sex is not just faulty, it is dirty, abusive, demeaning and actually undermines our real need for the companionship of the opposite sex and for all intents and purposes.

Even as it is well known that most women come into a relationship with an ingrained dependency syndrome and a thought that she has nothing else to offer but her body and sexual organ for the excitement of man, it is still the place of the man to teach her the truth. The truth being that she is far worth more than an object of sexual expression. She is a partner in the circle of life. She is a companion, she is a queen and she is worth everything she gets in life without shortchanging herself.

Because it is not true that women are the underdog in the relationship. Because marriage is a union of equal yokes. Because the two partners complement and complete one another. Because inequality will destroy the relationship. Because the woman is not inferior to the man. Because the woman is actually intrinsically more endowed than the man as a result of her God given or nature designed role in the circle of life. Because the economic supposed superiority claimed by the man is actually only complementary. And because of these points and more, women need a new mindset that would remove the self-sabotage they have imposed on themselves. Men have a responsibility here to help by a change of their attitude and how esteem women in their hearts.

There is a psychological warfare between the sexes that should not be there. The war of superiority. Because it takes two to tango. Because men and women bring different roles for the proper formation of the family, no party really have the right to claim anything above one another. Because of all the above mentioned issues, women should develop an attitude of self-preservation and self-worth while dealing with men.

The trouble with women, though not the excuse for men to misuse them, in my perception, is that they not only underrate what they bring into a relationship, they have narrowed their worth to providing sexual gratification and at best bear children for men with the expectation of having their needs paid for by the men.

Powerless women seem to feel good for men. It is clear from experience that men generally dread and therefore, resent all the endowments of women or powerful women. Looking at women from the freckled colour glass of sex, seeing them as objects of male sexual satisfaction is most likely a weapon in the arsenal of the men for the prosecution of the war of the sexes. If men win the war with this weapon, they also defeat themselves.

Because every man first had a mother. Because the other women in his life include his sisters. Because no man can truly win the game of life without a woman who have sacrificed all she had to support and cheer him to victory as a wife. Because men also beget daughters. Because men love all these women in their lives. Because of all these reasons, it has become necessary to call upon and warn men to change their attitude towards women among whom are our mothers, sisters, wives and daughters – put in the order of meeting them – who are the source and stay of our lives.

22 Responses to “Our Need For New Attitude Towards Women”

  • lets roll:

    As a person In my opinion when there’s any religion which shows it’s fans that whenever winning a fight you are able to distribute the spouses and kids from the defeated military among her as sex-objects and employ them by pressure to satisfy your ardent desire against their will, is sick, brutal and crude. Can anybody enlighten me on which Islam shows?

  • colingrillo:

    Men, please answer this as soon as possible, its a project requested by my health teacher. Please.

  • xLittle21Yaox:

    Rap has to do with possessions, crime, violences, bad attitude towards woman, money, affects children attitudes, clothing gear and concieted.

    How do you combine all together as a thesis statement?

    Thankyou!

  • wwwavid360gamercom:

    In terms of woman’s likes and dislikes, understanding woman’s mind, What makes them happy etc etc. I think guys are just confused and their perceptions are far away from the reality. Do you agree with this ? If yes what do you think is the reason ?

  • Nick:

    We are going to a friend’s wedding in a few weeks. There are going to be a lot of people from my work there, and the women have particularly negative attitudes toward pregnancy. They are all career-focused, and see motherhood (and especially pregnancy) as a weakness and a deficiency. So, I am expecting a lot of mean and sarcastic comments about how I am “procreating at an alarming rate” and am “subjecting myself to typical female stereotypes.” My husband says to just pay no attention. But I am the sort of person who likes to stand up for my own convictions. What can I do/say to defend my choices without being rude and petty?
    By the way, I am not some high school drop out who started having kids at 15 without any means to support them. I had my first at 25, and am now pregnant with #2 at the age of 27. I have a Bachelors and a Masters degree, and am now working on my PhD at an Ivy League school. But obviously, my children are a priority, so I can’t advance in my degree and my career as quickly as women who don’t have kids.
    I am not judging women who have kids at 15 or at 45, or never at all. It’s just none of my business. I just always get comments that 25 and 27 is too young to have kids, and I absolutely disagree.

  • Alun J:

    It appears in my experience that evolution keeps species alive but we often avoid any humans which are “different”. How harmful towards the survival in our species is really a trait?

  • MentallyCryppled:

    Our parents are divorced and my buddy (13) visits our father for two times per month and that he is getting an adverse impact on my buddy. He keeps saying such things as all a moaning women needs is really a slap. My father i did so that to the mother and my buddy accustomed to hide beside me within my mattress as he did. I understand its him since it began as he began seeing him as he left prison.

    My buddy is my closest friend and that i love him however i hate what he’s becoming.

    Btw I am his older sister (15)

  • nyyankees1123:

    I live in india and unfortunately my people dont have much respect for women, if you are in touch of world affairs you would have heard about the recent rapes which every one is angry about, the truth is ive always been angry with the conservative nature of india, im tired of men blaming the women saying they ask for rapes by wearing “indecent clothing” what would that be you ask? Jeans and tee shirts!! As it is, a huge majority of people here believe women should leave passive lives taking care of the house and staying in the kitchen and that if one wants to have a life and go out at night they are apparenty asking to be raped and insulting our culture. Its not just the attitude to women, our general behaviour is backward, honor killings take place now and then. Children are sacrificed in villages randomly cause a soothesayer told them to…

    The reason i write this is to get some advise on what to do about my countrys attitude. Im thinking of starting a cultural revolution but i dont know where to start, sadly a lot of the women feel the same way stating that women who dress inappropriately ask for trouble… I really need some advise.

  • RichT:

    Sometimes I question if our kitten snuggles as much as me a lot more than my hubby because I am female and for that reason a parent figure. Or perhaps is it simply he likes me best? Can felines recognise the main difference between men and women humans??

  • diggn4richez:

    Or has it been destroyed by our laissez-faire attitude towards sex.

  • Harriet W:

    I understand that this isn’t always true however in my own experience I begin to see the black lady will often have lots of attitude inside them even at early age range.They tend to be confrontational. For instance I had been at the shop yesterday which black girl was quarrelling using the store owner over money. She turned out and was threatening him. The majority of the black women within my senior high school classes were very confrontational and contended using the instructors alot.

  • lcollier93sbcglobalnet:

    I’m planning my honeymoon for the coming year and extremely like the feel of an exciting inclusive resort in Lucea, Jamaica. Does anybody be aware of exactly what the attitudes are just like towards lesbian couples? Its our honeymoon (which we are investing lots of money on) and that i expects to become treated just like every other couple. Sincere comments only please.

  • Denali:

    Our parents are divorced and my buddy (13) visits our father for two times per month and that he is getting an adverse impact on my buddy. He keeps saying such things as all a moaning women needs is really a slap. My father i did so that to the mother and my buddy accustomed to hide beside me within my mattress as he did. I understand its him since it began as he began seeing him as he left prison.

    My buddy is my closest friend and that i love him however i hate what he’s becoming.

    Btw I am his older sister (15)

  • joevsyou:

    I have learned by a few people who Australian tend to be more upfront and play less games than American women, Can there be any truth for this. I additionally often hear the women be prepared to be treated totally diffrent, can there be truth for this statement?

    I have always aspired to visit, and aspire to live after that seeing a college there. I believe which i will easily fit in very well if the information and facts are good

  • gail C:

    It appears obvious, especially about this forum, that there’s frequently a lot of bitterness among some males towards ladies and the other way around.

    What is your opinion causes it.

    And it is it justifiable to resent and whole gender, if that’s the case, why?

    What can cause Males and ladies to Resent one another?

  • Jon P:

    For example general attitude towards lady,portrayals of lady,and laws and regulations for lady and woman’s privileges.

    I am asking about sexism and lady particularly. I am not asking whether it’s only a better country generally. Not attempting to ‘t be fair,it is simply a far more specific question.

  • dubmecrazy3:

    What effect would another 9/11 or any other London bombings dress in Western individuals attitude towards Muslims residing in Western nations benefiting from our freedom to fight the west? And allow me to help remind you, our grandma and grandpa and great grandma and grandpa fought against and died to safeguard these liberties – these liberties are sacred to all of us.

  • Boo Cookie:

    I understand that ladies were intended to be submissive, obedient, not sexual, not passionate, etc- but they are there some quotes from the moment which i can use to aid this?

    * @Rowdy McFarlane.

    I understand this through extensive research of background and British literature, religion and usually just common understanding. Those things of the couple of males aren’t associated with society and cultural anticipation of times. However, I ought to have clarified, I meant attitudes towards women within the 1700s and 1800s in Europe, not America.

  • veemodz:

    How’s today’s method of finding and approaching someone not the same as how people would start associations within the 50′s approximately on? One thing were more technologically according to seeking information to plan plans and shy and scared of methods would start convos or something like that?

    What sets this generation of enthusiasts aside from the prior generation?

  • louisewoods1984:

    Here’ am speaking concerning the country ‘India’, not the primitive Indians of the usa.

    America includes a very liberal/open attitude towards sex, whereas Indians generally are very limited/traditional. So can you explain that and which attitude you believe is much better and just how?

  • Scott W:

    I viewed a relevant video of the dog pushing the cat right into a bath as well as for some strange reason it got me considering gender roles as well as gender treatment in by society.

    Women pull off stuff that males don’t. Felines are thought feminine and dogs masculine. Felines are more compact, less strong and much more innocent searching than dogs. If your dog bites a young child it always will get put lower (since it does more damage because dogs are bigger and more powerful) if your cat bites a young child it is not given serious attention, because they are small , weak and innocent searching.

    I understand this sounds really stupid but bear beside me!

    Will it not say a great deal concerning the improvement in attitudes for the masculine and also the feminine?

    As well as felines are sly and tricky. I have seen a lot of videos of felines pouncing on kids heads and digging their claws in, and individuals think it is amusing, yet if your video of the dog nipping in a kid emerged everybody could be going ‘its evil have it put down’.

    I am talking about, granted its a naive sentiment I am conscious of that, however it just entered my thoughts that people masculine and female are treated a great deal in a different way.

    It simply bears similarities to the sorts of attitudes we’ve towards gender in society if your lady does something to some guy we discover it funny, if your guy will the same factor to some lady only then do we go as sexism and give them a call pigs.

    I simply figure that there’s a design within our attitudes towards masculine and female and not simply in humans felines and dogs being one of many different ways as one example of it.

    Felines seem cold and calculating and tricky, they are picky about who they love be going towards the nearest neighbour which has the very best food while dogs love without any reason, are relaxed and never tricky whatsoever. I am not attempting to be sexist, because I am female, but it is much like us humans no?!

    Keep in mind this can be a generic question, I am conscious that you will find exceptions and I am not attempting to tar all people of either gender with similar brush.

    It is simply a stupid believed that entered my thoughts after watching a dumb (but very cute) youtube video!

    @quiet bob : good point, with no I dont think we’re that different (males and ladies) however i mean the various attitudes towards the masculine and also the feminine, less between species. Maleness and womanliness are ideals not options that come with gender.

    @Zack haha this is exactly why I’d prefer to possess a dog! As well as why I am inclined to be buddies with men! I’ve found investing time with my boyfriend much less demanding compared to other women! I personally don’t like double standards, and also the double standards of ladies really irritate me!

  • Taylor2k:

    Does religion restrict women to caretaking roles, they have become non selfish martyrs. Quitting their lives to look after children and mates.

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