Some of the times, we are tempted to see women from the glossy and scintillating colour of sexual intercourse. It is usually an overpowering but negative feeling that takes over the mind and brain. It is clear to me that this thought pattern is bad for the necessary relationship we have and ought to have with the opposite sex.
Our relationship with the opposite sex is designed to produce the sweetest and most rewarding experiences of our earth life. This relationship between men and women is the foundation for and the pathway to the creation of the family which is the basic foundation of a stable society.
Because the establishment of a family work best when it is done by two people of the opposite sex who are in love and genuinely so. Because love is much more than a feeling. Because the best description of love is sacrifice. Because the best act of love is service. Because the really right spelling love is TIME. Because best attitude towards love is appreciation. Because the right way to show love is giving. Because the right way to teach love is kindly. Because the right way to handle love is tenderly. Because the best thing to do for love is praise. And because of all these reasons, seeing a woman from the freckled coloured glass of sex is not just faulty, it is dirty, abusive, demeaning and actually undermines our real need for the companionship of the opposite sex and for all intents and purposes.
Even as it is well known that most women come into a relationship with an ingrained dependency syndrome and a thought that she has nothing else to offer but her body and sexual organ for the excitement of man, it is still the place of the man to teach her the truth. The truth being that she is far worth more than an object of sexual expression. She is a partner in the circle of life. She is a companion, she is a queen and she is worth everything she gets in life without shortchanging herself.
Because it is not true that women are the underdog in the relationship. Because marriage is a union of equal yokes. Because the two partners complement and complete one another. Because inequality will destroy the relationship. Because the woman is not inferior to the man. Because the woman is actually intrinsically more endowed than the man as a result of her God given or nature designed role in the circle of life. Because the economic supposed superiority claimed by the man is actually only complementary. And because of these points and more, women need a new mindset that would remove the self-sabotage they have imposed on themselves. Men have a responsibility here to help by a change of their attitude and how esteem women in their hearts.
There is a psychological warfare between the sexes that should not be there. The war of superiority. Because it takes two to tango. Because men and women bring different roles for the proper formation of the family, no party really have the right to claim anything above one another. Because of all the above mentioned issues, women should develop an attitude of self-preservation and self-worth while dealing with men.
The trouble with women, though not the excuse for men to misuse them, in my perception, is that they not only underrate what they bring into a relationship, they have narrowed their worth to providing sexual gratification and at best bear children for men with the expectation of having their needs paid for by the men.
Powerless women seem to feel good for men. It is clear from experience that men generally dread and therefore, resent all the endowments of women or powerful women. Looking at women from the freckled colour glass of sex, seeing them as objects of male sexual satisfaction is most likely a weapon in the arsenal of the men for the prosecution of the war of the sexes. If men win the war with this weapon, they also defeat themselves.
Because every man first had a mother. Because the other women in his life include his sisters. Because no man can truly win the game of life without a woman who have sacrificed all she had to support and cheer him to victory as a wife. Because men also beget daughters. Because men love all these women in their lives. Because of all these reasons, it has become necessary to call upon and warn men to change their attitude towards women among whom are our mothers, sisters, wives and daughters – put in the order of meeting them – who are the source and stay of our lives.